One in everyone’s life they have left that they are stuck in the midst of a war. They need to make a tough decision. This can be very stressful, especially for folks who like to do it all and not let anyone down!
As you get older life doesn’t get any easier. In fact it gets harder!! Way harder you need to be more organized, know your values and be 100% confident in your decisions.
This is pretty much easy unless you have unknowns arise! Unknowns completely turns the situation around. You expected to have a fun one day vaca from life but oops you have a test or you have a work project. Something unexpected that totally ruins your plans!
What do you do in these situations? For me it is never easy despite having specific values and sticking to them. This is due to my need to please others.
Needing to please other is another aspect of adulthood. When you are an adult you can not please everyone you just need to please yourself. Don’t worry about others- unless of course you have kids or are married, but in my case it’s just me.
However, I hate turning things down because I’m the kind of person who sits at home after work all week and then finally someone want to hang out this week: great what day Friday, oh I said I would hang out with someone else already can we do another night no… Oh.
Then it’s crunch time– who will be less angry, who did you say yes to first- when you plan something months out and forget and put two things on one day- and who did you hang out with last so you are not just hanging out with one friend.
I thought I would learn by now but-no-adulting is hard! I say it will be easier when I have a place to call my own, but I don’t think so.
It all comes down to what I said in the beginning: staying organized, be set in your values and be don’t care what others think do things for you- in other words be 100% confident in your decision whether it be do it all and except the consequences or pick on and except the consequences.
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